Assalaamu a'laikum Sheikh,
In sh'aAllaah you're well.
I am a single mother to one daughter (divorced from her father around 15yrs ago). We're in Australia and we have no relatives near or extended anyone here. I only have an old father back home who is retired now and no brothers. My daughter's father or his side has never been in contact, so basically my daughter has no one.
I earn an average income and plan to buy a small house for us to live in and also leaving a roof for my daughter if Im not alive tomorrrow so she doesnt have to struggle. There are limited islamic finance options here and they offer higher rate. My question is:
- Given my circumstances, can i take a home finance from a commercial bank (i only intend to buy one apartment for our residence). The islamic finance houses require larger deposit and have higher profit/interest rate and stricter eligibility requirements.
- Can i take a life insurance policy with minimum amount just so my daughter has some money to cover for her studies and living exepnses till she starts earning on her own, if im not alive tomorrow? INtention is not to become rich or accumlate welath but to cover basic needs for my daughter.
Jazak Allaahu Khair!
A comprehensive Islamic ruling addressing home ownership and life insurance for a single mother, clarifying the prohibition of interest-based finance while emphasising community responsibility to develop accessible halal alternatives.
Wa ʿalaykum as-salām wa raḥmatullāhi wa barakātuh. May Allah reward you for your concern for what is halal and for your care for your daughter.
The general ruling on interest-based loans (ribā) is clear and applies to housing or other transactions.
Allah says:
وَأَحَلَّ اللَّهُ الْبَيْعَ وَحَرَّمَ الرِّبَا
“Allah has permitted trade and has forbidden ribā.”
(Surah al-Baqarah 2:275)
And He says:
فَإِن لَّمْ تَفْعَلُوا فَأْذَنُوا بِحَرْبٍ مِّنَ اللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ
“If you do not desist, then be informed of a war from Allah and His Messenger.”
(Surah al-Baqarah 2:279)
This applies to home loans, even if:
Accordingly, our scholars state that:
do not in themselves reach the level of ḍarūrah (necessity) that permits ribā.
A necessity in Sharīʿah is defined as:
A situation where a person fears destruction, severe harm, or inability to survive without committing the prohibited act.
Owning a home, while highly beneficial, is not considered a necessity, because:
Regarding taking life insurance for your daughter; commercial life insurance is also ḥarām, because it involves:
Allah Almighty reward you for your noble intentions. From an Islamic jurisprudence perspective, intentions, even if noble, do not change these sorts of rulings, for the Prophet ﷺ said:
«إِنَّ اللَّهَ طَيِّبٌ لَا يَقْبَلُ إِلَّا طَيِّبًا»
“Allah is Pure and accepts only what is pure.”
(Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim)
That said, please explore permissible alternatives that may achieve your goal without sin, such as:
Allah says:
وَمَا مِن دَابَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ رِزْقُهَا
“There is no creature on earth except that upon Allah is its provision.”
(Surah Hūd 11:6)
Lastly, situations like this highlight the urgent need for accessible, genuinely Sharīʿah-compliant financial solutions that cater to real-life circumstances, especially for vulnerable individuals such as single parents, widows, and those without family support. Community leaders, professionals, investors, and institutions must work collectively to develop practical halal housing and protection mechanisms, reduce barriers to entry, and prioritise social need over profit. Facilitating lawful alternatives is not merely a financial exercise but a communal obligation founded by Islam, a manifestation of mercy, justice, and mutual support.
May Allah ease your affairs, place barakah in your income, protect your daughter, and grant you provision from places you never expected.
And Allah knows best.